RICK WARREN
It All Starts with God It’s not about you. The purpose of your life is far greater than your own personal fulfillment, your peace of mind, or even your happiness. It’s far greater than your family, your career, or even your wildest dreams and ambitions. If you want to know why you were placed on this planet, you must begin with God. You were born by his purpose and for his purpose. The search for the purpose of life has puzzled people for thousands of years. That’s because we typically begin at the wrong starting point—ourselves. We ask self-centered questions like, “What do I want to be? What should I do with my life? What are my goals, my ambitions, my dreams for my future?” But focusing on ourselves will never reveal our life’s purpose. The Bible says, “It is God who directs the lives of his creatures; everyone’s life is in his power.” 1 Contrary to what many popular books, movies, and seminars tell you, you won’t discover your life’s meaning by looking within yourself. You’ve probably tried that already. You didn’t create yourself, so there is no way you can tell yourself what you were created for! If I handed you an invention you had never seen before, you wouldn’t know its purpose, and the invention itself wouldn’t be able to tell you either. Only the creator or the owner’s manual could reveal its purpose.
I once got lost in the mountains. When I stopped to ask for directions to the campsite, I was told,” You can’t get there from here. You must start from the other side of the mountain!” In the same way, you cannot arrive at your life’s purpose by starting with a focus on yourself. You must begin with God, your Creator. You exist only because God wills that you exist. You were made by God and for God—and until you understand that, life will never make sense. It is only in God that we discover our origin, our identity, our meaning, our purpose, our significance, and our destiny. Every other path leads to a dead end. Many people try to use God for their own self-actualization. They want God to be a personal “genie” who serves their self-centered desires. But that is a reversal of nature and is doomed to failure. You were made for God, not vice versa, and life is about letting God use you for his purposes, not your using him for your own purposes. The Bible says, “Obsession with self in these matters is a dead end; attention to God leads us out into the open, into a spacious, free life.” 2 I’ve read many books that suggest ways to discover the purpose of my life. All of them could be classified as “self-help” books because they approach the subject from a self-centered viewpoint. Self-help books usually offer the same predictable steps to finding your life’s purpose: Consider your dreams. Figure out what you are good at. Clarify your values. Set some goals. Aim high. Believe you can achieve it. Be disciplined. Never give up.
Of course, these recommendations are all good and often lead to great success. You can usually succeed in reaching a goal if you put your mind to it. But being successful and fulfilling your life’s purpose are not at all the same issue! You could reach all your personal goals, becoming a raving success by the world’s standard, and still miss the purposes for which God created you. You need more than self-help advice. Jesus Christ once said, “Self-help is no help at all. Self-sacrifice is the way, my way, to finding yourself, your true self.” 3 This booklet is not about finding the right career, achieving your dreams, or planning your life. It is not about how to cram more activities into an overloaded schedule. Actually, knowing your purpose will allow you to do less in life—by focusing on what matters most. It is about becoming what God created you to be. How, then, do you discover the purpose you were created for? You have only two options. Your first option is speculation. This is where most people are. They just guess or speculate or theorize about the purpose of life. When someone says, “I’ve always thought the purpose of life is …,” they’re really saying, “This is the best guess I can come up with.” For thousands of years brilliant philosophers have discussed and speculated about the meaning of life. Philosophy is an important subject and has its uses, but when it comes to determining the purpose of life, even the wisest philosophers are just guessing.
Dr. Hugh Moorhead, a philosophy professor at Northeastern Illinois University, once wrote to 250 of the best-known philosophers, scientists, writers, and intellectuals in the world and asked each person “What is the meaning of life?” He then published their responses—which were quite discouraging—in a book. Some of these famous thinkers offered their best guesses, some admitted that they just made up a purpose for life, and others were honest enough to say they were clueless. In fact, a number of these intellectuals asked Professor Moorhead to write back and tell them if he discovered the purpose of life! 4 Fortunately, there is a better alternative to speculation about the meaning and purpose of life. The easiest way to discover the purpose of an invention is to ask the creator to explain it. The same method works for discovering your life’s purpose. You can find what God, your creator, has revealed about life in his Word, the Bible. Revelation beats speculation any day. God has not left us in the dark to wonder and guess. He has clearly revealed his five purposes for our lives through the Bible. It is our Owner’s Manual, explaining why we are alive, how life works, what to avoid, and what to expect in the future. It explains what no self-help or philosophy book could know. “God’s wisdom … goes deep into the interior of his purposes…. It’s not the latest message, but more like the oldest—what God determined as the way to bring out his best in us.” 5
God is not just the starting point of your life; he is the source of it. To discover your purpose in life you must turn to God’s Word, not the world’s best guesses. You must build your life on unchanging, eternal truths, not the ever-changing opinions of talk shows, pop psychology fads, or success-motivation seminars. The Bible says, “It’s in Christ that we find out who we are and what we are living for. Long before we first heard of Christ and got our hopes up, he had his eye on us, had designs on us for glorious living, part of the overall purpose he is working out in everything and everyone.” 6 This verse gives us three insights into your purpose.
BIGGER THAN YOURSELF
I believe that deep down, NO ONE wants to live a meaningless life. No one wakes up and thinks, “man, I hope today is 100% average and nothing worthwhile happens.” No one wants to get to the end of their life and have nothing meaningful to show for it and no one whose life they’ve impacted along the way. No, that’s insane (and, if I’m honest, an exceptionally dark and depressing thought…so I’ll move on)!
But, here’s the thing: behind every world-changer, every celebrity, every historical figure we look back on and think, “that person made a difference” is a team of people – a tribe – that we rarely see or hear about. They didn’t get to that prominent status on their own…they were shaped, helped, or encouraged by people around them. If you want to live a life of significance, it WILL involve other people.
Jesus Himself is actually a perfect example of this! No matter where you stand in your faith, it’s hard to argue against Jesus being the most significant Person in history. And, even though He was the Son of God (with all the power that comes with that) He didn’t choose to do His work alone. Jesus recruited 12 guys as His inner circle, and there were hundreds more who followed Him and shared in His work. And after His resurrection, He left them with clear instructions to carry on the work He had been doing all along. That handful of initial followers formed the Church, which quickly spread all over the known world, ultimately changing billions of lives for the next two millennia. Yes, Jesus’ death and resurrection for our forgiveness was a solo mission, but the work of changing the world was done in community.
You and I have the opportunity to be part of that same mission that has been going on for nearly 2,000 years now. We can make a significant difference in the world by diving in to what God is doing through the Church. If you’ve been searching for significance through your own efforts, stop wearing yourself out because it won’t bring you true satisfaction. Jump in and work alongside what your church is already doing! You will be a part of the lives God is changing, and you’ll experience true significance as you become a part of something bigger than yourself.
Read the following verses and then talk with God about specific steps you can take to plug in to your church community. Gifts
The purpose of receiving a spiritual gift is to give it away, not hoard it. This doesn’t mean that we won’t benefit from them. We will. But spiritual gifts are for the benefit of those whom God places in our paths. And others’ gifts will be used to strengthen us
Ephesians 4 says that Christ gave us pastors and teachers “to equip His people for works of service.”
Knowing what our spiritual gifts are is an amazing thing. We get to impact other people with a supernatural ability given to us by God’s Spirit. We get to be the hands and feet of Jesus in someone’s life. We get to serve, encourage, teach, and pastor our fellow Christ followers. But it is all for nothing if we don’t have love.
